Sometimes you’re in a bit of a rush and you need your kids to get ready, but they’re getting distracted or just ignoring you. The five-second countdown is useful here. It seems to work because it:
(1) Grabs hold of their attention. This is, in part, because your parental attention is 100% focused on the matter as well.
(2) Demands decisive action. Five seconds doesn’t give the kids much time to dither.
(3) Encourages autonomy. Children want to be autonomous. They often get embarrassed when a parent does something for them that they can do themselves. Usually when presented with chance to do it themselves versus have it done for them, they’ll take the self-directed direction.
Try the countdown method if you haven’t already. It might save you a bit of sanity.
Further reading: Dr. B and the Magical Countdown